Thursday, August 12, 2010

Just Jack

1.  A few weeks ago, I took Jack into school and they were just preparing to have snack.  One of the teachers said she had saved a place for him, and I look over and notice that Jack's place setting has a cup without a lid.  So I asked her if he drinks from his cup without a lid, and she said yes.  My jaw hit the floor, and then I managed to ask when that had started.  Miss Shannon kindly replied, "Since he turned two." 
     My response was of course, "Ohmygoodness, ladies, you have to tell me these things; I have NO IDEA what I'm doing!  I was happy that we moved to cups with lids without suction!"
     That night at dinner, we tried to give Jack a cup without a lid, and it was very unsuccessful.  Milk went everywhere, and poor Baby Jack was soaked.  I figured we'd give it a little more time, and a couple of weeks later, I spoke to Miss Tab about the cup again.  She said that they only give him about an inch of milk in the cup (explains so much...) and always tell him to use two hands (duh, Mommy). 
   A couple of nights ago, we tried again.  SUCCESS:)  Jack was so proud of himself!



He kept saying, "I'm such a big boy!"

2.  After dinner yesterday, Jack hadn't quite finished with his milk, and I allowed him to put it on the little kiddie table that we have for him.  Bad idea (what with the no lid and all).  In all his two-year-old glory, he came through the kitchen swinging Skinny Bear (you've seen how long this bear is, right?) at full force.  Before I knew what had happened, I was covered in milk from the knees down.  So were the kitchen cabinets, the floor, and possibly one of the puppy dogs.  I closed my eyes, took a deep breath, and began to count to ten.  I think I made it to three before Jack said, "My milk fell, Mama.  Mama, my milk fell."  Like it had just jumped off the kiddie table and onto the floor.  Too cute for words.

3.  Last night, I believe Jack had his very first bad dream.  He woke up at about 5:00, and when I went in to soothe him he was crying, and he kept saying, "Where are the doggies?"  Bless his little heart, he was still half-asleep, but oh, so miserable.  I just tried to tell him that the doggies were sleeping and that it was all okay.  I tucked him back in, rubbed his little back, and whispered, "I love you, Baby."
     "I love you, Mama."  Melt. my. heart.

4.  So remember the other day I blogged about the potty-training craziness, well that night, I had some girl-time with my friend Julie.  At dinner we were talking about the craziness (I know, I know - wonderful dinner conversation), and Julie suggested that I put a little potty in my bathroom...ya know, to prevent future rug disasters.  I immediately dismissed the idea for several reasons.  Surely, Jack can't take off his own shorts and underpants.  The doctor said little potties aren't that great and make for harder transitions (and as it is, I certainly don't need any help with that).  We have a little potty, but Jack never really wanted to use it, and I'd stuffed it into a closet after the doctor's visit.  But the more I got to thinking about it, the more I thought I should take Julie up on her advice.  Without kiddos of her own, she offered a fresh, logical perspective, so today, before I took my shower, I brought out the little potty and set it up in our bathroom.
     Sure enough, just as I was about to shave my legs, Jack comes running into the bathroom announcing he has to go potty.  I tell him to take off his shorts and his underpants, and HE STARTS TO DO IT.  Now, it definitely took a tad bit longer, but ohmygoodness he did it.  He sat himself down on his little potty and went right away.  He was so proud of himself, but not as proud as I was of him.  My little heart was swelling.  Now...did he get every last drop into the potty?  Probably not.  Did he do the shimmy-shake?  Nope.  Did he wander around naked from the waist down for the next 10 minutes?  Definitely.  But did I have to wash clothes and my bathroom rug this morning?  No, I did not.  Thankyouverymuch.
     Julie, you are an angel.  I heart you!

If all of this didn't make you smile, I don't know what will!

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

A D.C. Getaway

So, since our anniversary was on the 5th, and Brad is super-hard to shop for, I decided that I would plan an overnight getaway for just the two of us as his anniversary present.  Last Saturday, we dropped off Jack and the puppies at my parents' house, and headed into the city.  We stayed at a pretty swanky hotel - The St. Regis (thank you, Starwood points - I heart you!).  We walked around downtown like real city folk, well...until we stalked the front of the White House like the rest of the tourists.  We Brad enjoyed, not one, but two different art museums (turns out I'm not really an art museum kindagirl, but who knew?), had a quiet, romantic dinner at McCormick and Schmick's, and slept uninterrupted and in complete silence for over eight hours.  It was magical:) 

For my anniversary present, Brad got me a super-awesome camera.  I'm still browsing through the manual and learning how to use it to get the looks that I'm really going for, but I love it.  And it was a surprise, which is even better.  Some of the shots from our date our from our new camera, but some of them were taken with my usual camera since there's still a comfort level there.  Here's our day in some kinda artsy photos:

Our hotel (apparently prime ministers and presidents stay here all the time, although, we didn't see any)

Swanky chandelier

Statue outside the Corcoran Gallery of Art

On the way to the next museum

Guess who's home?

The White House

Can you guess who took this photo?

My favorite from the day

Majestic

Washington Monument

American Art Museum

The courtyard was beautiful

Hanging out after dinner

Yeah - so, the bathroom mirror had a tv inside of it

We had tons of fun, but it was so good to come home and pick up Baby Jack and our puppies.  Thanks, Mom and Dad for baby/puppy-sitting:)

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Sunny Cleveland, Part III (The Finale) and So Much to Say...

It's been awhile...I apologize.  I'm exhausted, but more about that in a minute.  First I wanted to finish up sharing pictures from our trip to Cleveland.  After the picnic on Saturday, we headed back to my Aunt Kathy's to hang out and relax. 

Jack did some more rolling down the hill (with Ryan, this time).  None of my pictures came out that clearly though:(


The rest of us napped...or rather, tried to nap (somewhat hard with a two year old and five dogs present).



We had some really good pizza for dinner and then headed back to our hotel.  The next morning, we flew home.  Jack fell asleep about thirty seconds into take-off (that's right, as we were rocketing towards space), and didn't move until after we landed.  I'm so glad that he does so well with airplanes:)


He also loved the various shuttles we had to take in the airports.  Maybe because of the freedom not being in a carseat allows?



All in all, it was a really fun trip and went much more smoothly than either Brad or I had anticipated.  We're so lucky that Jack is so flexible in his schedule...thank goodness!


Remember how I mentioned that I'm tired?  I'm beginning to understand what people mean when they say "terrible-two's."  It's incredibly ex.haust.ing.  Seriously.  The indecisiveness.  The mood swings.  The whining.  I'm learning that parenting is all about patience.  And lately, I've really been working on mine.  Lately, it's been a must that I work on my patience because my goodness, some days I can barely stand it.  He's so adorable...so sweet, and his speech is coming along fantastically, but he still struggles to voice his needs/wants rather than whine or cry.  And what he wants one second is not necessarily what he meant or really wants the next second.  Patience. is. a. virtue. 

Also.  POTTY-TRAINING!!!!!  Craziness, I tell you.  What's really wrong with diapers anyway?  I'm so proud that he's only a few months into being two and mostly potty-trained, but that is also a major challenge.  Jack goes to the bathroom more than anyone else I know, and no matter what time of day I plan on taking my shower (even if it's right after he's gone to the bathroom), he ALWAYS has to go while I'm in there.  Which, incidentally, always results in a lot of clean up and laundry.  I used to really like laundry.  Now...not so much.

All this being said - I miss him like crazy when he's not around.  This weekend, I took Brad on an overnight getaway, and my parents kept Jack (and the doggies!) overnight.  I had such a good time with my hubby, and we laughed and had a very nice, quiet dinner.  But I told Brad in the morning that I woke up at 1:36 am, ready and willing to go get Baby Jack:)

Here's a sneak-peek at my next post about our getaway:


Can you guess where we went?

Gotta run...the washing machine is beeping at me, but leave a mama some love!

Sunday, August 8, 2010

Right Now

(Oh.my.goodness...I could just eat his tootsies right up!)

Friday, August 6, 2010

Yesterday

Me: "C'mon, Jack - let's get you on the potty."

Jack: "I'm Buzz Lightyear.  I come in peace."

How on earth was I not supposed to laugh out loud?
 

Thursday, August 5, 2010

Five Years

Five years ago today, I married my best friend under a canopy of trees and right before a thunderstorm. We celebrated the beginning of our lives together with our family and friends and held each other close throughout the evening. We danced to our song, walked through a showering of bubbles, and drove off into the night. We spent our first night together as a married couple in our very first apartment. What a perfect day!


"In Your Eyes"
by Peter Gabriel


love I get so lost, sometimes
days pass and this emptiness fills my heart
when I want to run away
I drive off in my car
but whichever way I go
I come back to the place you are



all my instincts, they return
and the grand facade, so soon will burn
without a noise, without my pride
I reach out from the inside
in your eyes


the light the heat
in your eyes
I am complete
in your eyes
I see the doorway to a thousand churches
in your eyes
the resolution of all the fruitless searches
in your eyes
I see the light and the heat
in your eyes
oh, I want to be that complete
I want to touch the light
the heat I see in your eyes


love, I don't like to see so much pain
so much wasted and this moment keeps slipping away
I get so tired of working so hard for our survival
I look to the time with you to keep me awake and alive


and all my instincts, they return
and the grand facade, so soon will burn
without a noise, without my pride
I reach out from the inside
in your eyes


the light the heat
in your eyes
I am complete
in your eyes
I see the doorway to a thousand churches
in your eyes
the resolution of all the fruitless searches
in your eyes
I see the light and the heat
in your eyes
oh, I want to be that complete
I want to touch the light,
the heat I see in your eyes


in your eyes, in your eyes


in your eyes, in your eyes


in your eyes, in your eyes


My Sweet, Sweet Baby Brad,

Through the good, the bad, and the ugly - you are there for me.  You keep me calm when I am crazy and you make me laugh.  You help me to relax and to take it easy...to not sweat all of the small stuff.  You are more patient with me than you are with anyone else, and I thank you for that.  You make my life better every day.  Together, with Jack, you have made me a mother...my most cherished gift.  I love you more every day, and I know that together, we can get through anything.  I look forward to everything the future holds for us and to growing old with you.  I love being your wife (yes, even on the days you make me crazy)!

I love you,

Erika

Wednesday, August 4, 2010

Busy, Busy, Busy (aka - Sunny Cleveland, Part II)

Last Saturday, while we were at the family reunion, Jack was busy, busy, busy.  So busy, in fact, that I actually did very little visiting and eating (so sad!) because I was crazy busy just trying to keep up with a two year old:)  You may notice a change in clothes - remember, we're potty-training. 

At the picnic alone Jack:

swung with Grampy...


and with Daddy...

cuddled with Grampy...

stored Potato Head in the cooler...

(Grammy said, "He's chillin'")

played with the big boys...

found a stick that he loved...

spied on the doggies with Maya...

explored the tunnels at the park...

found a new kind of slide...

played in the SAND...

fed the geese with Daddy...

kept some of the bread for himself...

hugged his third cousin...

and sort of posed for a family photo.


I'm exhausted just thinking about all of that, and he did it without a nap! Needless to say he fell asleep in the car before we left the parking lot, but my goodness, our boy was busy!

On another note, today was Grandpa's birthday.  Jack, Daddy, and I called him this morning to wish him a happy birthday.  Jack is adorable when talking on the phone now (note to self: catch on video), but I still have to relay each message:)  This evening we went out for dinner and then back to Ray and Diane's for dessert, but I forgot my camera:(  I'm thinking I should just leave it in my purse...might make things easier.  Anyway, just wanted to take this extra opportunity to say Happy Birthday, Grandpa!  Hope you had a great day - you deserve it!